Keeping your love on.  It’s a hard thing to do.  Sometimes it’s the hardest thing to do.  But if you want to build healthy relationships with God and others, learning to keep your love on is non-negotiable.

Adults and children alike thrive in healthy relationships where it is safe to love and be loved, to know and be known.  Yet for many, relationships are anything but safe, loving, or intimate.  They are defined by anxiety, manipulation, control, and conflict.  The reason is that most people have never been trained to be powerful enough to keep their love on in the face of mistakes, pain, and fear.

Keep Your Love On reveals the higher, Jesus-focused standard defined by mature love – love that stays “on” no matter what.  Danny Silk’s practical examples and poignant stories will leave you with the power to draw healthy boundaries, communicate in love, and ultimately protect your connections so you can love against all odds.  As a result, your relationships will be radically transformed for eternity.  When you learn to keep your love on, you become like Jesus.


Table of Contents:

Introduction
Section 1: Connection
Chapter 1: Powerful People, Powerful Relationships
Chapter 2: Turn Your Love On
Chapter 3: The Battle Between Fear and Love
Chapter 4: Building Healthy Relationships
Section 2: Communication
Chapter 5: Communication: Exchanging the Truth Inside
Chapter 6: The Trust Cycle
Chapter 7: Communicating in Conflict
Section 3: Boundaries
Chapter 8: Levels of Intimacy
Chapter 9: Guidelines for Setting Boundaries
Chapter 10: Did You Learn to Love?
Endnotes


Endorsements:

Author Danny Silk does an incredible job of equipping you to finally build the relationships you’ve hoped for.  His stories create laughter, his relational insight astounds you, but most importantly his message is full of catalytic empowerment for your life!  Who on earth doesn’t desire to love and be loved really well?  After a decade of ministry in the area of relationship, we can honestly say that Danny Silk’s material on building connection and healthy communication is at the top of our list of resources!  This book is packed with powerful, practical and solid insight for creating healthy connected relationships.  We highly recommend it to singles and couples alike!
Josh & April LaFrance, Redding, CA

Keep Your Love On! Carries a timeless and undying message of God’s unconditional love and wisdom in relationships.  This message is particularly pertinent at a time when love is often understood as a feeling rather than a choice.  Hope and healing will be released as you read this book.  Read it individually, read it with your family, read it in a group, but read it!  Many have been touched and changed.
Barry & Lori Byrne, Redding, CA


About the Author:

Danny Silk serves on the Senior Management Team at Bethel Church in Redding, CA.  He is the director of Global Transformation Institute and oversees the Bethel Staff development.  Danny and his wife, Sheri, are the founders of Loving On Purpose Educational Services, a ministry to families and communities worldwide.  They have been married over 28 years, and have three children and three grandchildren.